Happy Sunday!☀️
This morning, I happened to be reading a journal entry that referenced a post I wrote on August 21, 2021, “Perceptions.” After reading it, I thought I’d reshare it with you. Here’s what I wrote:
Perception – a way of regarding, understanding, or interpreting something; a mental impression
Question – If you perceive something to be true, is it actually true?
Social media has opened my eyes about the way we perceive things. Even when in agreement, we never truly understand the other person’s full perspective unless we ask, or they explain it in detail. Most of the time we assume that because we are in agreement, our perspectives are the same. When in reality, they are not.
Honestly, perceptions can be very deceptive. Especially when we attempt to interpret another person’s feelings or words. Have you ever wondered how someone perceived you based on your words, feelings or actions? Do you believe their perception would be accurate if they never spoke to or interacted with you? More than likely, not. So why do we assume our perceptions of others to be true?
My advice, if you really want to know how a person feels, or understand the meaning behind their words or messages, ASK. Also, people change over time. Just because they said something or felt a certain way a year ago, doesn’t mean they feel the same way today. Again, ASK.
Perceptions can be misleading. It’s so easy to make assumptions based on limited information. Even text messages, emails, and posts can be misinterpreted. It’s always best to ask for clarification than speculate the worst—because, let’s be honest, it’s always the worst thoughts that come to mind, never the best. Smile. As I stated four years ago, “… if you really want to know how a person feels, or understand the meaning behind their words or messages, ASK.”
This is all for now! I pray you have a wonderful Sunday. May it be filled with lots of love, laughter, peace, and joy.♥️
I love you,
Shaun
It’s Shaun’s World 
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