Y’all, I just found this small card in an old photo album. If I hadn’t removed a couple of photos, I probably wouldn’t have found it for years!

Storytime…
Turkey 1998
So, there was this Turkish guy who worked at my friend’s tailor shop who kept asking me to go on a date. Well, one day, after my friends Destiny and Kenny talked me into it, I finally said yes. Erdal was his name.
Erdal only spoke a few words of English, and I only spoke a few words of Turkish. So, our communication was basically limited to smiles and gestures. He didn’t drive, so his brother was our driver for the night. Y’all, I’m not sure where he took me, but I remember it being a small restaurant in a nearby town. Instead of eating inside, we ate outside in the dark under very dim lights. Which leads me to the last sentence of his message (if translated correctly)— “I apologize if I hurt you.”
Smiling because he didn’t hurt me. You see, I couldn’t eat the chicken. Although I could barely see the flesh of the chicken breast (due to the dim lights), I could tell by the texture that it was undercooked. Y’all, he kept apologizing. I felt so bad because he really wanted the date to go well. The card above was in the roses he gave me as an apology. Needless to say, we never went on another date, nor did we ever speak about it. However, we did exchange smiles whenever I visited Destiny’s shop.
THIS is why I keep everything—for the stories and sweet memories.🥰
Shaun
*Just a thought— I can’t even imagine going somewhere nowadays with someone I barely know, with a language barrier, and without a cell phone or my own transportation. I was so trusting!




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