When you were five, what did you want to be when you grew up?
When I was five, because I can actually remember back that far, I wanted to be a maid. Not a housekeeper, but a maid. I wanted to be like Florence Johnston on The Jeffersons. The reason I remember this so vividly is because someone asked me what I wanted to be, and my mom lost it after hearing my answer. She told me that she never ever wanted me to tell anyone that I wanted to be a maid. Now, if you know Florence Johnston, you know she was never the typical maid. She was anything but a maid. After that incident, I changed my answer to “a baby doctor” (pediatrician). It was a much safer answer.😂
I believe the word that best describes me is “Optimistic.” There’s so much happening in the world today that would make one wonder if there’ll be a tomorrow, yet I remain optimistic. There’s just something in me that won’t allow me to settle for the doom. I’m not saying that I’m not deeply moved and disturbed by the pain and suffering, because I truly am. However, I refuse to believe that brighter days are not ahead of us.
My charge to you is never to give up hope. Brighter days are ahead. Peace is ahead. A kinder, more loving world is ahead.♥️
If there were a biography about you, what would the title be?
Good question! Whatever the title, it would reflect my personality, me navigating through life’s adventures (every experience, whether good or bad, is an adventure of some sort), and my love for God and those closest to me. Here are a few—
“The Adventures of LaShaundrea B.: From Childhood to Adulthood”
“Living Serendipitously: The Story of LaShaundrea B.”
“In Her Own Words: The Journals of LaShaundrea B.”
I have thousands of journal entries dating back to the early 90’s, so my story is already written. It only needs to be published.
Bonus One:
“LaShaundrea B.: The Lover, The Dreamer, The Queen Mother.” Depending on what’s written and who does the writing. Now, that one would be good!🤭
I’m most happiest when I’m with my hearts—my children. I just love being their mother! Although they’re adults now, I still feel like a new mother when I’m in their presence. I soak up every moment we’re together. They’re my babies.🥰🥰
December 2022
Y’all, I can’t help but smile when I think about how blessed I am to be their mother. God actually believed they belonged with me. Me! What an honor.♥️
I’m only speaking the BEST—God’s BEST— over my future. So, three years from now, my life will be far better than it is today. God is already moving things into place as I write. A little move here, another there, and in three years, I’ll see the outcome of everything He’s doing today.☺️
What would you do if you lost all your possessions?
If I lost all of my possessions, I would be truly devastated! So many of my possessions hold precious memories and are irreplaceable. They include old letters, notes, journals, pictures, and other memorabilia dating back almost 40 years. So, yes, I would be devastated. However, it would not be the end of my world because I would still have life, and life means there’s always an opportunity to begin again.
Shaun
**Side Note: I’m currently reading the book of Job in the Bible, and Job lost everything. However, in the end, he was blessed with so much more than he lost.
For those struggling with losses, please don’t give up! Brighter days are ahead.♥️
I had to think about this one for a second before answering. When I was younger, in my 20s and 30s, I would have immediately said yes to seeking an adventure. However, now that I am older (in my 50s), and the world is quite different, security is a priority.
With that being said, it also depends on the weather, my mood, and my energy level. Right now, it’s gloomy and rainy out, and I feel drained, so security is all I want at this moment. But yesterday, when it was sunny and I felt well-rested, an adventure would have been lovely.☺️
During my late teens/early twenties, I had planned to live out my first 50 years of life working towards retirement. My goal was to retire before the age of 50. I joined the military when I was 19, so that was possible. Well, when I retired 18 years later (early retirement), I never recognized it as being retired. I didn’t feel like a retiree. Plus, I wasn’t 50 yet.
Fast-forward to today. I’m now 51 (I will be 52 next week), and I am finally resting in the fact that I am a retiree. In my first 50 years of life, I managed to have two completely different careers—Airfield Management in the Air Force and Registered Dietitian Nutritionist in the civilian world. Now it’s time for me to enjoy being retired and move as I please, at the pace that I please.
Recently, I had to remind myself of this. I was disappointed in myself because I hadn’t reached a specific professional goal. That’s when I began remembering all the goals I had achieved, including my goal of retiring before 50. All this time, I thought I was behind, when in reality, I have actually been ahead of the game and living life as I planned.
God’s been so good to me. I’m finally embracing life as a retiree. I am beyond blessed.♥️
Shaun
**This just came to mind. When I was in the Air Force, I used to drive through the city I currently live in and say I would retire here someday. At the time, I was thinking 65/70 years old. It’s a great place for retirees. I often laugh because I retired here at age 37. God really does have a sense of humor. Again, He’s been so good to me.🥰
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