Life

Which Lens Are You Looking Through?

I hope Facebook never does away with its “Memories” feature. For years now, it has been my source of inspiration, encouragement, smiles and much needed messages. Here is one I decided not to make public and only saved it as a reminder to myself. I was going to publish it but changed my mind. I knew what it meant to me then. Needed to see it again to reassess what it means to me today.

Facebook Memory: November 28, 2021

Reading Will Smith’s book WILL. Sooo many gems in this book. Here’s one I just had to share. Something to think about when making decisions.

“It’s amazing how skewed your vision can become when you see the present through the lens of your past.”

There’s no way we can move forward if our mindset is stuck in the past, or we continue to react to present situations based on past experiences.

Decided not to share this with anyone. Don’t believe they’d understand. However, I’m posting it privately so that it shows up in my memory next year.

Which lens are you/am I using to view the present? Are we looking through the lens of the past or the lens of the future? Something to really ponder on.

I have yet to read Jada Pinkett Smith’s book, but I did read Will Smith’s and LOVED it. So much of what he wrote resonated with me. I remember writing that we must have had the same zodiac sign or something (we don’t, I’m a cancer and he’s a libra). Then, after listening to Jada’s conversation with Jay Shetty, I was like maybe we are alike also. Maybe it was the era of when we were born, or being young adults in the 90s. I just view things a little differently than most.

See, this is the perfect example of how my year long celebration has been going. I’m tasked with an assignment/assessment of a situation that I need to deeply examine before moving forward. My decisions will set the stage or trajectory for my next 50+ years. Yeah…THIS is what I have been working with since turning 50. My jubilee year has not been the celebratory year I expected; however, it has been the year that my future self is dependent on.

That’s all I have to share at this moment. Not going to assess and decide today. Nope, this requires a lot of thought and assessing. I just needed to see it today. Trusting God for more affirmations, confirmations, and revelations. I am listening, God.

Anyhoo…Welcome to Shaun’s world! It’s deep. It’s complexed. It’s me. It’s who I am becoming. God has so many great things planned for my future. Stick around and see how it all plays out.

Shaun

Life

Smile

When you read the title, did you smile?

I hope so.

That was my intention.

If not…

Let me try again.

You are loved.

Did that work?

No…

Let me try this.

You are AWESOME!

That didn’t work either?

How about…

You make me smile.

Yeah…

I know that worked.

I felt your smile.

Now it’s your turn.

Make someone smile.

Smiles are free. Keep them going.

Enjoy your week!♥️

Shaun

Life

God’s Favor

God’s Favor by Donald Lawrence and the Tri-City Singers
Lyrics: Genius.com

I know that you don’t feel your best
Hold on, Be strong
God’s not forgotten you
Broken dreams got you feeling blue
Hold on, be strong
God’s looking out for you
Just remember at the end of the day
The favor of God can open the way
God’s favor, is more precious than life
(God’s favor, more precious, than life, to me)
I know that you don’t feel up to the fight
Hold on, be strong
The battle is not up to you
Oh I hear you say, it just ain’t no way
Hold on, be strong
God’s got the final say
Just remember in the midst of your down
The favor of God can turn things around
God’s favor more precious than life
(God’s favor, more precious, than life, to me)
So what if doors are closed
God’s favor can bring high places down
I know that you’ve been faithful
And when God get’s ready to bless you
There is nothing no man can do
God’s favor, more precious than life

God’s favor is surrounding you. Embrace it. It’s already yours.♥️
Life

Trust God

Facebook Memory: November 25, 2022

Trust God.♥️

That was all I wrote last year—“Trust God.” So today I will leave it at that. Nothing else needs to be said.

Have a blessed weekend.

Love you!♥️

Shaun

Life

Year 50: Five Months In

Yes…I am speaking life and blessings over everything.

Happy 50 years–5 months to me!! Thought Year50, my jubilee year, was going to be a cakewalk. Laughing. This was not the celebration I imagined, but it’s all good. God is shaping and molding me into the woman I am destined to be. Smiling.

Going into this next month of life speaking life and blessings over everything and everyone I touch, reach, and encounter. Everything and everyone in my path will be blessed. Amen

I can hear Donald Lawrence singing, “I Speak Life,” can’t you? Smile.

Good Night!♥️

Shaun

Life

Thankful

Today is my first Thanksgiving without my momma. I started feeling it yesterday. Whew… Life… I am so very thankful for the 49 years (almost 50) we had together. She was definitely one of a kind and will forever be missed. Thankful she’s no longer in pain (she was in soooo much pain) and finally at peace. This Thanksgiving she is finally free.

What are you most thankful for?

I am the most thankful for life. Thankful that I am still here to experience God’s goodness. Thankful I am still here to love on my babies and them love on me. Y’all, they are my hearts, my smiles and my joys. I love them so much.♥️♥️

I am also thankful for my dad and bonus mom, my siblings, other family members, friendships (the strong, SOLID ones), and YOU. I am so very thankful for YOU!♥️

To everyone celebrating Thanksgiving, “Happy Thanksgiving!”

Love you,

Shaun

Life

Focus On God

Always keep your focus on Him.

Several years ago, someone commented on one of my tweets and to this day every time I hear, “Focus on God,” I remember her words.

She said, “Don’t look to the right or to the left, focus on God.”

Today I encourage you to keep your eyes straight ahead and focused on God. Yes, stay focused on God.

Love you!♥️

Shaun

Life

Screaming–Keep Going Shaun!!

Listen, today I am celebrating one of many successes. Y’all, it took me forever to get out of my head. It took me forever to become confident enough to share my blogs outside of WordPress. Then, it took me forever to accept this as something other than a hobby. This is part of my purpose and calling. It may not seem like much, but I know wholeheartedly this is only a snippet of something greater that God has planned.

For everyone who continues to read and share my blogs, THANK YOU!! You are soooo appreciated. I love you!!!♥️♥️♥️

Facebook Memory: November 21, 2022

Celebrating small successes!🌟 Plus.. the 5s just look so cute!☺️

And to think I thought posting for 30 consecutive days was CRAZY! Y’all, this was my 3rd attempt at trying this, and now I’m at 555 days!🙌🏽♥️🥰🌟💃🏽

ItsShaunsWorld2.com

80 days until 1000!!!

Today is Day 920, exactly 365 days later. I am so proud of myself for not giving up. For actually trying again and again. I know it may seem small but it’s so big to me. Y’all, I am finally doing something that I absolutely love doing and I feel so free to do it. Nah…I’m not making millions and I don’t have millions of followers, but I am living in my authenticity, allowing God to use me, AND I am at peace. Whew!!! Nothing BUT GOD!!! Y’all, I am truly, truly blessed.

This is my Year50…

Shaun

Life

Celebrate Your Successes

Remember to celebrate all of your successes including those only you and God know about. Like the fears, doubts, insecurities, and perfectionism you overcame before making your first move. Yes, those successes are just as important and should be celebrated too.

Every success puts you closer to your goals and dreams. So celebrate!

Love you!♥️

Shaun

Life

Standards and Boundaries

There is absolutely nothing wrong with setting standards and boundaries. Protect yourself. You matter too.♥️ ~Shaun

You are not asking for too much.