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It’s Five Years Later: So Where Am I? … Actually Four (Revised)

UPDATE: I was so excited when I found this memory that I couldn’t count. Laughing. However, this makes everything that is currently happening in my life even more interesting. Becoming emotional as I think about it. Can’t wait to share!♥️

HA! Can’t believe it’s been five four years already!

Well, had to refer to my journal to see what I had written on July 14, 2019, and here is what I wrote:

“Be intentional about time, talent and friends.”

That was it.

So where am I today according to the quote above?

Time–I am becoming better with managing my time. Sadly, it is a constant struggle.

Talent–I am so proud of myself for tapping into my talents. I’m finally using them.

Friends–Some have come and some have gone, and I am at peace with the way things are going.

So how am I doing according to Bishop’s actual quote below? Keep reading…

“Be intentional. Where do you see yourself in 5 years, and how do you plan to get there?”

Journal Entry: May 22, 2019 (Goals were written and revised prior to Bishop’s sermon.)

Here are my current goals written on February 2, 2019. Over the next couple of years, I need to make sure my endeavors align with these goals. Everything I do at work has to provide skills for my professional and entrepreneurial careers.

Overarching Goals:

  • Make global connections.
  • Support efforts that promote and support healthy, sustainable communities.
  • Spread hope.
  • Promote safe places and spaces [for marginalized groups].

I included details on how I would accomplish each goal, and so far I am right on track. I know at times it may seem like I am all over the place, and sometimes I am (I just love life), but I do know where I’m going. This morning I stepped up my game and took another leap. Will share later. Want to see where it goes first.

Thanks for reading! Hope you have a wonderful weekend.♥️

Shaun

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A Shift in the Atmosphere

Not sure if it’s only happening in my life, but there is a shift happening. A huge shift in the atmosphere. Y’all, something big is taking place. I feel it with my entire being.

When I said I feel differently since turning 50, y’all, I actually feel differently. It’s exciting, but also a little unsettling. Mainly because I have absolutely no idea of what’s coming. All I know is I must continue trusting God while allowing Him to lead.

Staying focused and present while praying …

Shaun

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Remain Optimistic

Good things do happen.

Dreams do come true.

It is possible to love and be loved unconditionally.

Beauty can be found in even the darkest moments.

Do not allow anyone to convince you otherwise.

Keep hope alive by remaining optimistic.♥️ ~Shaun

“… with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26
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Living From a Space and Place of Love & Gratitude

Sitting here watching Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday interview with Maya Angelou. I have only seen snippets of it before. Now I’m watching the entire episode. Y’all, I feel her. Gratitude and love are EVERYTHING! If you have not watched it, here’s the link. It is so worth watching– Maya Angelou Super Soul Sunday Interview.

Loving life. Loving the place I’m in. Living from a space of gratitude and love. Staying present while residing in peace.

This is my world, this is my life…

Shaun

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I Gave In

Soooo….

I’m now on Threads! Yes, I’m finally there. I was so hesitant because I did not want to get sucked down another rabbit hole. However, when I found out I could share links, I was sold. Now I can finally share my blogs with my IG family.

Let’s see where this goes!💛
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Speak Life

Happy Tuesday!

Woke up with the song, “Be Encouraged,” playing over and over in my head. Not long afterwards, I checked my Facebook memories and low and behold look at what popped up!

Be encouraged. Know that your labor is not in vain. Amen

Kept scrolling through my memories and found another gem from July 11, 2017. I immediately began singing Donald Lawrence’s song, “I Speak Life.”

Speak life and favor over your life.♥️

Thanks for dropping in to see what I had to say today. I so appreciate you! Enjoy your day.♥️

Shaun

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Another Facebook Memory: July 8, 2019

Was going to share this with this morning’s blog, but I knew it would have been too long. This memory is a caption that I had written in response to a video Michelle Obama shared on July 7, 2019. She was speaking about women finding it difficult to put themselves first. It has taken a while, but I am finally finding it so much easier to put myself first.

Facebook Memory: July 8, 2019

Good Morning! Here’s today’s social media find. Caution: it’s pretty long, but needed.

I’m a nurturer. I’m a problem solver. If I see something that needs to be done, I do it, whether asked or not. So, I don’t blame anyone else for expecting me to do what I’ve always done.

Since my 45th birthday, stepping back and allowing others to handle problems has become easier. I’m finally focusing on me. These past two weekends have been rejuvenating. I’ve actually enjoyed myself without worrying about my kids (my cheerleaders☺️), my family, or work.

Y’all may think I’m over exaggerating, but I haven’t felt free to only think about myself since I was a little girl. Back then, I was either the oldest, or most “mature,” so I was always put in charge of things. This carried over into my adulthood and 1) was great for my career, 2) benefited others around me, but 3) caused me to lose myself. Well… at 40 I started searching for “ME,” and on June 17, 2019 ALL shackles were released. Whew!! From now on, I’m putting myself first! I deserve it!

Note: Please stop placing so many responsibilities on girls at a young age. It’s okay to teach them to be self sufficient, but also teach them how to take care of themselves. When we know better we must do better. Let’s raise, whole women, not broken women. That’s all!😊

I am enough. Taking care of Shaun. Self care is a must.

Okay… that’s all for today.♥️