Category: Life

Life

It’s Already Handled

Shaun Bradford

Earlier, someone liked a tweet I posted nearly eight years ago. Not sure how old tweets pop up because I never seem to see them, but evidently someone does. Here’s the tweet.

X (formerly known as Twitter): June 21, 2016

Looking back over the past eight years, so many things happened that could have destroyed my spirit, made me give up, made me settle, made me lose faith, yet here I am. I am still standing and moving forward. As people say, I am so glad I don’t look like what I have been through. God is so good and merciful.

Not sure what prompted me to make that post. Sometimes I just post what I feel or hear. Either way, I see that someone needed that message today.

Here’s what I will add today. God already knows the outcome of our situations. He knew before we even knew there would be one. Our job is to rest in Him while He takes us through whatever we need to go through to get to the other side. As I mentioned before, there were plenty of things that could have taken me out, but I am still here. I am so grateful I didn’t give up or give in. Y’all, God is so good!

Listen, don’t give up. God’s got you! You will get through this. Right now I am hearing this song we used to sing in church (there are different variations) — “How I got over. How I got over. My soul looks back and wonder, how I got over.” Amen

Have a blessed day! Love you!♥️

Shaun

Life

Put God First

Shaun Bradford

Who can relate?

In difficult times, it seems easier to put God first. You know, that’s when we are deep in prayer so we are usually communicating with Him often. But, how about when times are good and everything is going well? Is He still first, or is He second, third, or even last to everything else?

A few years ago, I created a daily routine to ensure I put God first because I noticed when things were going well I did not spend as much time with Him as I did before. Now, don’t get me wrong I still said a quick prayer in the morning and acknowledged Him throughout my day; however, I stopped dedicating time to only Him. I would say I would get to it later, and sadly, later never came. Now, I intentionally set aside time. Y’all, so much is revealed during these times. It’s during these times that I actually feel closer to God. It’s when my faith is strengthened.

If you find yourself forgetting to prioritize God, maybe you should do as I did and create a plan where He is always first. Just a thought.

I am so grateful for my relationship with God.

Wishing you a wonderful day!♥️

Love you,

Shaun

Life

Year 50: Month 7

Shaun Bradford

Happy 50 years 7 months to me!! Yay!! Still can’t believe I am 50! What a blessing.

As you know, today is the day my daughter is moving to another state. In fact, she and her fiancé just left. No tears, only smiles. They are in God’s hands.

Just thinking about how around 29 years ago my baby girl was preparing to make her debut. I guess you can say I am feeling what I felt the day she entered the world. It was the day my life changed and I began my new journey as a mother. Now, another journey is beginning. Smiling

At this moment I can hear Mariah Carey singing, “Butterfly.”

When you love someone so deeply
They become your life
It’s easy to succumb to overwhelming fears inside
Blindly I imagined I could
Keep you under glass
Now I understand to hold you
I must open up my hands
And watch you rise …

So flutter through the sky
Butterfly
Fly
Spread your wings and fly
Butterfly

Well, that’s all I have for this month’s birthday celebration. Only five months left! All I have to say is, “God’s will be done.” Amen

Enjoy your day!♥️

Shaun

Life

Are You Doing What You Love?

Shaun Bradford

Think about it. I mean, really think about it. Are you doing what you love? Not only career wise but in life. Or…are you waiting for conditions to be right or better before you decide to do it?

It’s my hope that you are doing what you love and that you absolutely love what you are doing. Sometimes we find ourselves doing what we love but because we are not in the right environment our experiences are not favorable. Been there.

I hope you are doing both. If not, I pray you will be soon. Love you!♥️ ~Shaun

Life is too short not be doing both.
Life

Gotta Get This Out

Shaun Bradford

Trying to hold it together. A wave of emotions just hit me and I am trying not to cry. Was going to write about it tomorrow but I need to write about it now. First off, it’s nothing bad. Smile

Sooo… My daughter is moving to another state tomorrow. This has been in the works for some time, and now that time is here. Gotta love on her all day. When I tell you my kids and I are so close! We have never been more than minutes away from each other unless we’re traveling.

Listen, my baby girl has been with me since conception. I almost got put out of the military because I refused to take orders to Turkey unless she could go with me. I was advised against it. Was advised to leave her with my mom, but I couldn’t. She was mine and my responsibility. She went with me and we made it! I am so happy I made that decision because she still remembers her experience. The only time I had to leave her was when I was activated (Air National Guard) after 9-11. But even then, I was only an hour and a half away from her. I could see her at any time. Y’all, she’s my heart.

I know it sounds like I do not want her to leave, but that’s quite the opposite. To me it’s long overdue, but timing is everything. I guess she gets her patience and instincts from me—watching and learning what and what not to do. Laughing. I am so happy for her! However, I am definitely going to miss her presence, her hugs, and our passionate debates about politics, religion and pretty much any topic under the sun. She’s my horoscope advisor. Always telling me where my moon is or what’s rising. Listen, I have absolutely no clue what any of it means, but I love hearing her talk about it. All I know is I am a Cancer—a true Cancer is what she calls me. Y’all, she’s my sounding board. She’s brutally honest and keeps me on my toes. And I love every minute of it!! Every time I see her I smile. God blessed me with her. Never in a million years could I have expected to love so deeply and be loved as she loves me—as both of my two do. I am actually a mother!! Can’t stress it enough. I am truly, truly blessed!

Anyhoo…

I am so happy for her. And soooo very proud of her. Now I have another place to visit. Smiling

God is good. Just had to get that out.

Shaun

My hearts.♥️♥️

Life

Live, Laugh, Love, and Be Kind

Shaun Bradford

I believe the secret to a good life consists of actually living it; laughing often (gotta laugh); loving wholeheartedly; and being genuinely kind to others (not for show). Here’s what I shared two years ago.

Facebook Memory: January 23, 2024

Smile, if you’re already here. If this is how you’re living. If you are not here, get here quickly. This is where peace resides.

Live: Stay present!

Laugh: Your soul needs it.

Love: Unconditionally – it’s the secret of true peace and happiness.

Be Kind: EVERYONE’s struggling with something. No one’s exempt.

Focus on who & what truly matters and let the rest go. Life is short, spread LOVE!♥️ #ILoveYou

Again, spread love. Everyone needs love, even those we do not believe deserve it—they need it. Approaching them with hate only adds hate to your heart. Also, add hope. Whenever possible, add a little bit of hope to your conversations. Give people something to look forward to even if you cannot see it. Listen, hope goes a long way. It keeps life going.

That’s all I have for now. Wishing you a beautifully, blessed day.

Enjoy!♥️

Shaun

Life

Dreams & Goals

Shaun Bradford

Facebook Memory: January 22, 2022 (image slightly modified)

Dreams and goals don’t magically appear nor do they happen overnight. They require effort, work, patience and time.

No matter how long it takes, keep showing up!♥️

Shaun

Life

The Good Times

Shaun Bradford

Yesterday, I could not decide which Facebook memory to share so I didn’t share one. Well, instead of sharing my “Hello Sunday” on my social media accounts, I decided to share this memory. It’s a day later, but worth sharing.

Facebook Memory: January 21, 2023

Much too often we remember hurts and disappointments before we remember the good. Today, I encourage you to focus on the good times. The moments that made you smile and feel loved. Have a wonderful day.♥️

Always hold your good memories close and dear.

Praying you have a blessed day and joyful week. May God shower you with unexpected blessings.♥️

Love you,

Shaun